{"id":12941,"date":"2017-06-01T09:23:24","date_gmt":"2017-06-01T17:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/?p=12941"},"modified":"2022-04-13T12:15:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T20:15:33","slug":"what-is-a-serial-monogamist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/what-is-a-serial-monogamist\/","title":{"rendered":"What is a Serial Monogamist?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019ve been dating for a while. She\u2019s warm, she\u2019s beautiful, she\u2019s moving really fast. You\u2019re interested, maybe in something long term, but why is she trying to get you to commit so soon? Maybe she isn\u2019t as sweet as she seems. Maybe there\u2019s an ulterior motive. Or maybe she\u2019s a serial monogamist.<\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s a Serial Monogamist?<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/charlotte-green\/2013\/06\/23-signs-youre-a-serial-monogamist\/\">Serial monogamists<\/a> &#8211; people who keep moving from one serious relationship to the next. What happens when they hit the more advanced stage of <em>serial marrier<\/em>? The difference is huge, because marriage and a subsequent divorce can have lasting legal implications. And it can cost you a lot of money.<\/p>\n<p>Being addicted to marriage is absolutely not the same thing as being a gold digger. They aren\u2019t cheaters, they aren\u2019t liars or frauds. Women that move from marriage to marriage want to married, they want to be in love, but there\u2019s something that keeps tearing them away. It\u2019s complicated, but there are some signs you can look for.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She\u2019s still close to her exes and she has a <em>lot of exes. <\/em>Serial monogamists don\u2019t break off relationships that often &#8211; they move out of them, but keep their exes as friends. Are you the jealous type?<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019s not made it longer than two years. Most of her relationships ended before she hit the two year mark. They may have turned sour, or she may have just left.<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019s moving really fast. Your first dates were great &#8211; maybe the best you\u2019ve ever had. Serial monogamists are good at starting new relationships and if they\u2019re the marrying kind, they move fast.<\/li>\n<li>She doesn\u2019t seem to have a type. Are her exes all over the map? From looks to income, interests and politics &#8211; are they just all over the place? If she doesn\u2019t have a type it may be a sign she\u2019s a serial marrier.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you feel cheated, that\u2019s normal, but keep in mind that a serial monogamist isn\u2019t doing this for money, they don\u2019t even want to hurt the people they\u2019re with. They are just not the type for settling down, but they sure do seem like they are and they might think they are &#8211; especially if they\u2019re moving toward marriage. That can lead to a lot of problems for both of you (but mostly you) if you aren\u2019t expect it.<\/p>\n<h3>How To Find Her Marriage Records Fast<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re moving quickly out of the dating stage and into something more serious, you may want to know about her past marriages. An easy way to do this is to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/\">check out her marriage records online.<\/a> It\u2019s easy to find public records like marriage and divorce certificates. Just plug in her name, phone number and any other contact info &#8211; the more you have, the more quickly you\u2019ll find her in the results.<\/p>\n<p>Not only will you find her records, you\u2019ll find her other social media profiles. Serial monogamists don\u2019t usually hide their past but she might be trying to keep you from being jealous and just failed to mention her exes.<\/p>\n<p>Look for patterns: marriages that last less than two years, uncontested divorces, lots of friends that are former lovers. These all point to a serial monogamist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019ve been dating for a while. She\u2019s warm, she\u2019s beautiful, she\u2019s moving really fast. 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