{"id":16530,"date":"2018-08-06T08:51:57","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T16:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/?p=16530"},"modified":"2022-04-13T12:27:07","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T20:27:07","slug":"3-steps-to-avoid-online-predators","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/3-steps-to-avoid-online-predators\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Steps to Avoid Online Predators"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The chances that your child may fall victim to an online predator are rare, but the danger is still very real. A <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.unh.edu\/ccrc\/pdf\/Sexual%20Solicitation%201%20of%204%20YISS%20Bulletins%20Feb%202014.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study from the University of New Hampshire\u2019s Crimes Against Children Research Center<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> found that while reports have been steadily decreasing, 9% of children surveyed in 2010 reported receiving unwanted sexual solicitations online. Here are 3 steps to help your child avoid online predators. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Educate and Empower<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step in helping your child to avoid online predators is to educate them on the danger itself. Just as you would caution them about accepting rides or gifts from strangers, teach them about talking to strangers online in a manner that doesn\u2019t scare them as much as make them aware. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christine Elgersma from child advocacy non-profit <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.commonsensemedia.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Common Sense Media<\/span><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2017\/08\/03\/health\/online-predators-parents-partner\/index.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suggests<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that parents let the child know that \u201cthere&#8217;s a chance someone could approach them online to get personal information, exchange pictures, and\/or meet in person, and it might be someone who feels like an online friend.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell them it\u2019s rare, but it happens, and if does they should go straight to the nearest adult. Also remind them to never share personal information or pictures with someone they don\u2019t know.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Monitor Your Child\u2019s Online Activity<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most children <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2017\/10\/19\/health\/children-smartphone-tablet-use-report\/index.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spend hours<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> online or in front of screens every day chatting, watching videos, playing games, texting and sharing pictures. While most of the time they are interacting with friends, there\u2019s always a chance they could come in contact with a stranger with an ulterior motive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online predators thrive in chat rooms, online forums, social networks and anywhere else that gives them the ability to interact anonymously behind a screenname or profile picture. Whether your child is using a phone, a tablet or a laptop, you have the right to know what who they\u2019re talking to. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fortunately, there are a variety of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tomsguide.com\/us\/best-parental-control-apps,review-2258.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">parental control apps<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on the market to help you monitor your child\u2019s activity online and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/reverse-phone-lookup\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">see who they\u2019re texting<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Apps like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/familytime.io\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">FamilyTime<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> not only allow you to limit screen-time, but will give you browser history, phone\/text logs, app usage and more. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep tabs on who they call, email or text with. If you don\u2019t recognize certain numbers or email addresses feel free to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">search them using a people search engine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> so you can see more detailed information including name, location, criminal history, sex offender status and more. If they appear at all suspicious you can use your control app to block them from reaching out again.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Look for Warning Signs<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parental control apps, however helpful, can only reveal part of the picture. Some possible warning signs that your child may be in contact with an online predator include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hiding their phonescreen or shutting their laptop when you enter the room<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Receiving calls, texts or gifts from people you don\u2019t know<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking inappropriate pictures or videos of themselves<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lashing out when told to end online game or put phone away<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Becoming secretive about phone or computer use<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acting depressed or withdrawn<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Any of the above could be warning signs that your child may be in danger. Step in right away and non-threateningly seek to find the truth. Monitoring your child\u2019s behavior is just as important as monitoring their activities online.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Again, it\u2019s extremely unlikely that your child will ever fall prey to an online predator. Neither you nor they need to live in constant fear. All it takes is a little education and vigilance to keep them safe. And It starts with you.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The chances that your child may fall victim to an online predator are rare, but the danger is still very real. 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