{"id":16640,"date":"2018-08-06T09:59:08","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T17:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/?p=16640"},"modified":"2022-09-05T11:21:07","modified_gmt":"2022-09-05T19:21:07","slug":"is-she-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/is-she-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"Is She Cheating On You? Signs She&#8217;s Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your relationship was going fine. But recently you&#8217;ve noticed a shift in your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">girlfrien<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">d\u2019s behavior: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She\u2019s started leaving the room to answer calls. She acts distant, taking more time responding to your texts, but when you are with her, she&#8217;s always on her phone and is quick to respond to texts from others. She\u2019s spending more out with friends than usual. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite not having actual evidence, you can\u2019t help but wonder&#8230;has <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">she cheated<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on me?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to research, a growing number of women have started to cheat in recent years. Read on to learn why and to learn what you can do to find answers to the question at hand: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is she cheating?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Do Wives <\/b><b>Cheat<\/b><b> More Often Than Husbands?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We recently looked into the topic of male infidelity and observed that some of the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/is-he-cheating\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on the topic proved that women do not cheat as frequently as men. Even though we noted that majority of the studies seemed to agree with the widespread assumption that men <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheat<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> more than women, a look into some recent research shows that this may no longer illustrate the full picture. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A study performed at Indiana University\u2019s Kinsey Institute found proof that women are now cheating almost as frequently as men. As further proof of this, the National Opinion Research Center observed that the number of married women who have admitted to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheating<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on their spouses has increased by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/national\/archive\/2013\/07\/wives-cheating-vs-men\/313704\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">40%<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> since 1990. However, wives do not cheat more than their husbands.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why Do Women Cheat?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what\u2019s the cause of the rising number of women cheating? According to <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/betamale\/2016\/05\/women-are-now-cheating-as-much-as-men-but-with-fewer-consequences.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alyssa Giacobbe of NYMag<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it can be partly attributed to the rise of the internet. With the wide-spread popularity of smart devices, texting, and social media, meeting new people and engaging in secret affairs with another <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boyfriend<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is easier than ever. They\u2019re even more accessible with applications like Tinder or Instagram filled with guys looking to mingle. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By scrolling through the feeds of our friends on social media continuously, it may trigger us to want to compare the way we live with others and imagine that we may be happier if were them. For lots of women who are unhappy in their relationships, the urge to talk to someone on the side can &nbsp;be overwhelming. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Economics could be another reason they\u2019re in search of extra-marital love as well. Many women now work full time and often earn even more than their husbands, which means they are not dependent on them as the bread-winners. For this reason, they are not as worried about the instability that would arise if they are not committed to one person. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, all of these are just theories. Regardless of the reasons, all signs point to a world where <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheating<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is just as common for women as it is for men. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Is She Cheating? How to Find Out<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re starting to have doubts and wonder if you\u2019re involved with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheat<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, there are some common warnings signs you may have noticed that are often prominent in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cheating partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. These include: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being detached <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hanging out more with friends or at work <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Changing how they look <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Refusing physical intimacy <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Drastic reduction in call or text rate <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spending more hours texting on their phon<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is where it\u2019s helpful to utilize a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">people search engine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. They collect publicly available data from numerous records and combine search results into reports that are easy to understand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you see a strange number on your partner\u2019s phone, they may be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">having an affair<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with a secret lover. You may be able to gather evidence of infidelity by searching those unrecognized phone numbers to find the owner\u2019s name, location and a wide range of other <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/build\/whos-texting-your-spouse\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">useful information<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You could also run a search on her known email addresses and social media usernames to look up whether or not she has any social media accounts or dating profiles which she hasn\u2019t told you about. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheaters often create a few alternate profiles but, luckily for us, they usually aren\u2019t aware of the existence of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/email-search\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reverse email lookup<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tools. These services can locate social and dating accounts on certain platforms that were created using the email address or username in question. This means that they use one single email or username to create all the various accounts that they\u2019re trying to hide, potentially exposing all those accounts with one quick search<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>She Cheated on Me \u2013 What Next?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regardless of your gender, getting cheated on is a painful and traumatic experience. For some people, it\u2019s something they never fully get over, and the lack of trust carries over into future relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other couples may deal with it, get through it together and enjoy more happy years in the relationship, but others have to let go and start new relationships to be happy. Regardless of what the future holds for you, getting to the truth is crucial. Arm yourself with knowledge and get some peace of mind while you search for an answer to the question: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is she cheating?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your relationship was going fine. But recently you&#8217;ve noticed a shift in your girlfriend\u2019s behavior: She\u2019s started leaving the room to answer calls. 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