{"id":18708,"date":"2019-01-14T14:17:02","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T22:17:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/?p=18708"},"modified":"2022-04-13T12:27:02","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T20:27:02","slug":"why-do-masseuses-get-divorced-so-often","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/why-do-masseuses-get-divorced-so-often\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Do Massage Therapists Get Divorced So Often?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>According to the American Psychological Association, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.apa.org\/topics\/divorce\/\">somewhere between 40 to 50 percent of marriages end in divorce<\/a>. While people get divorced for a variety of reasons, career choice is often a factor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A Washington Post <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2010\/09\/16\/AR2010091607509.html\">study of divorce rates by occupation<\/a> found that 38.2% of massage therapists become divorced. It&#8217;s a rate significantly higher than the national average.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So who are massage therapists and why do they get divorced so often?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Who are Massage Therapists?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Massage therapists are highly trained professionals, playing an important role in caring for a variety of medical issues from rehabilitation of injuries to clinical depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are may be as many as active 385,000 massage therapists in the United States. A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bostonglobe.com\/metro\/2017\/03\/06\/chart-the-percentage-women-and-men-each-profession\/GBX22YsWl0XaeHghwXfE4H\/story.html\">Boston Globe survey<\/a> found that 80.1% of massage therapists are female. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A <a href=\"http:\/\/people.bu.edu\/afnewman\/papers\/irony.pdf\">Boston University study<\/a> entitled \u201cCareer Women and the Durability of Marriage\u201d found that women who work are no more likely to get divorced than those who stay at home. In a field dominated by women, it seems gender alone does not explain the high divorce rate within the profession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mce_23\"><strong>Why Relationships with Masseuses Get Tense <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The more likely explanation lies with masseuses&#8217; partners, who are often unable to separate emotion from professionalism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The job requires physical interaction with regular (and sometimes long-term) clients. To make things worse, massages happen in dark, private rooms. This can place a real burden on a relationship. &#8220;Who did you touch today?&#8221; is a question that might be on your spouse&#8217;s mind when you walk through the door after a long, exhausting day as a massage therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For masseuses, the job is a form of physical treatment and healing that may be intimate but has no element of sexuality. Unfortunately many of their partners are never able to understand that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to blame a spouse for letting their imagination run wild and assuming the worst given the job dynamic. Luckily, there is a way for them to get some peace of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Are They Cheating? <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While there\u2019s no evidence that suggests that massage therapists actually cheat more, there is evidence that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/21667234\">women cheat as frequently as men<\/a>. The National Opinion Research Center also found the number of married women who have reported cheating on their husbands has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/national\/archive\/2013\/07\/wives-cheating-vs-men\/313704\/\">risen 40% since 1990.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re asking yourself \u201cis she cheating?,\u201d you may have noticed some of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/get-away-cheating\/\">the signs of a cheating partner<\/a>. Whatever the reason for your worry, there is something you can do to gain peace of mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How to Find Out<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While this won\u2019t always reveal the truth, it\u2019s worthwhile to search their info using a people search engine to see what may come up. For example, &nbsp;if you\u2019ve seen a strange number on their phone, or generally worry they may be texting a secret flame, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/build\/whos-texting-your-spouse\">search unknown phone numbers to get name, location and more<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that doesn\u2019t turn anything up, you can also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/is-she-cheating\">search their email address<\/a> to see any publicly-available social media profiles (including accounts on dating sites) associated with it you may not be aware of. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re married to someone working in a \u201crelationship-challenging\u201d field and are feeling insecure, it can just takes a few seconds to discover the truth. 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