{"id":21148,"date":"2019-04-15T15:56:12","date_gmt":"2019-04-15T23:56:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/?p=21148"},"modified":"2022-09-09T09:29:56","modified_gmt":"2022-09-09T17:29:56","slug":"do-bartenders-really-cheat-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/do-bartenders-really-cheat-more\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Bartenders Really Cheat More?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>According to the American Psychological Association, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.apa.org\/topics\/divorce\/\">somewhere between 40 to 50 percent of marriages end in divorce<\/a>. While people get divorced for a variety of reasons, issues stemming from one partner\u2019s choice of career can definitely be a factor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A fairly recent <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2010\/09\/16\/AR2010091607509.html\">study of divorce rates by occupation<\/a> found\nthat \u201c<em>dancers and choreographers registered\nthe highest divorce rates (43.1 percent), followed by bartenders (38.4 percent)\nand massage therapists (38.2 percent).\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So why do bartenders rank so high?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Do Bartenders Really Cheat More?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While there\u2019s no clear evidence that indicates\nthe reason <em>why<\/em> bartenders have such a\ntough time staying married, it\u2019s not difficult to hazard a guess. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bartenders spend their entire professional lives chatting up strangers and serving them drinks. It\u2019s only naturally that from time to time friendly relations will develop into something more, and temptation will rear its ugly head. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many bartenders do a lot more than serve\ndrinks; some become close with their favorite regulars.&nbsp; Given that it\u2019s not unusual for people\nfrequenting their local drinking establishment to confide their deepest secrets\nto the man or woman behind the bar, real connections can be formed.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While most bartenders in committed relationships are masters of feigning personal interest in hopes of getting better tips, others are likely genuinely flattered by the attention, attention which they may (rightly or wrongly) feel is missing from their partner at home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Seeing a Bartender? How to Find Out\nif They\u2019re Cheating<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If<strong> <\/strong>you\u2019re\nasking yourself \u201care they cheating?,\u201d you may have noticed some of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/compass\/get-away-cheating\/\">the signs of a cheating partner<\/a>. Are they\nspending suspiciously long hours out <em>after<\/em>\nclosing time? Are they strangely busy during their off hours as well?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While this won\u2019t always reveal the whole truth, it\u2019s worthwhile to search them using a people search engine to see what unknown info may come up. For example,&nbsp; if you\u2019ve seen a strange number on their phone, or generally worry they may be texting a secret flame, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/build\/whos-texting-your-spouse\">search unknown phone numbers to get name, location and more<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that doesn\u2019t turn anything up, you can also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spokeo.com\/is-he-cheating\">search their email address<\/a> to see any publicly-available social media profiles (including accounts on dating sites) associated with it you may not be aware of. It may also be a good idea to keep an eye on their coworkers&#8217; Instagram accounts and to check in on any photos taken at the bar (i.e. tagged by location) to see if you spot anything to be concerned about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re married to someone working in a \u201crelationship-challenging\u201d field and are feeling insecure, it can just takes a few seconds to discover the truth. 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